the real happily ever after

truth is, there IS no ONE happily ever after...you can be happy, pursue it, achieve it, lose it, re-find it, obtain it, let it go. Thing is, stop expecting it to look a certain way, stop waiting for prince charming, stop trying to control how the story should go, sometimes you get to achieve everything...sometimes things just make perfect sense but other times, life has a different plan for you and that's when you should look around and make the best out of things. Sometimes, you just have to get used to the flow of life in order to understand, even the closer things to you have a plan and a life of their own, can't control...can't expect. Then, all of a sudden you realize that happily ever after is so simple once you let go of everything else, that you can accept yourself, accept your life without giving up on your dreams, that you can see thru the darkness of each day with a smile and understand that life is not going to stop, life won't wait for you...it's happening everywhere and the story is being written, by not just you but by everything around you.